Parents, You can “Be it All” with your kids – year round, all day

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As parents, we all play crucial roles in our children’s lives; caregiver, teacher, disciplinarian, referee, nurse, housekeeper, and cook. Among those many roles, here are a few that we strive to be remembered as in the eyes of our kids. I believe these are the most important roles we play.

Coach 

Encouraging our children to climb higher, run farther, swim faster and play harder. I sometimes hear my daughter saying “I can’t”, but rarely let it affect me. All this means is that she only has to try a teeny bit harder and she’s there. I find myself saying, “Yes you can!” and inevitably she does. We would never encourage our kids to do something we knew was beyond their capabilities, and I think they know that instinctively.

Fan 

Whatever they create or accomplish, big or small, is deserving of our hands clapping and cheering them on. Even at the tender age of 2 ½, Miss Thing yells out, “Watch me, Mommy!” and my heart melts. It’s one of those feelings that is a bonus after the all the years you dream of what it will be like to be a mom.


When I save her from falling off a 4-ft wall onto rocks. When I let her dig in the garden or water the trees or feed the dogs. When I unexpectedly honor a request that is out of the ordinary, like chocolate for breakfast. This is the stuff of legends.

Playmate 

We have one child, and are lucky to have a happy, creative daughter whose mind is active – all the time! We are also lucky enough to dedicate our weeknights and weekends to entertaining her and including her in all that we do in and outside the house. She loves helping us as much as we love taking a break and pretending we are riding the train at the zoo, packing for a trip, cooking meals with rocks, grass, and mulch at the playground and running around. She loves spending time with us, and we hope that continues for a long time!

Friend 

She loves telling us about her day and her “other” friends at school. Sometimes we hang out in front of the house eating ice fruit pops and watching the neighborhood like I did with friends growing up in the city. Wherever she goes, she beckons to us, saying, “Come on! Come on!” Being a parent when I need to, and a friend establishes trust and a bond that could last a lifetime.
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